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This will be my last post/entry. I’m moving on with a new blog at Blogger.com.  Thanks to all my friends (u know who u are)  who followed and expressed their appreciation sa blog ko na to. Salamat sa comments nyo. And to Reg,  Ronnie,  Bill, Thurns and   Fred….thank u guys for being there during my low moments. Thank u for catching me when i almost hit the bottom.

…I dont miss him, I miss who I thought he was.

And I know I have a heart because I feel it breaking." -
Wizard of Oz

Minahal ko siya. He needed time to think and that was ok – he was
worth waiting for…waiting for… and waiting for.  Finally, na realize ko na naghintay pala ako ng
matagal sa sagot na matagal na rin nya ibinigay sa akin: na kung minahal nya
ako, hindi sana ako pinaghintay.

Break ups are never easy. You are a bundle of jealous, hurt, angry,
resentful emotions. Your mood can swing from depression to bitter
anger. The only thing you seem to think about is what went wrong, can I
get him/her back or I’ll show him/her. The main theme in your life is
‘How can I feel better right NOW?’

1. Friends and Family. I know this may seem obvious but
   lean on your friends and family. Spend time doing things together, not
   just talking and thinking about the break up. If this isn’t enough, you
   may consider a support group or counseling.
2. Resist the urge to beg. You want them back but not at
   any price. At the time it may seem the right thing to do but think
   about it. In the long run they will lose respect for you. This doesn’t
   mean don’t try to work things out. If there is a chance you can work
   things out, go for it. However, if your partner has made it clear that
   in their eyes, the relationship is over, begging will not help and may
   hurt the situation.
3. Make a change in your life. Find a new way to spend your
   time. Take a class, join a gym, adopt a pet, or volunteer. Do anything
   that will make you feel good about yourself. Your ego is probably
   feeling bruised right now. Find a way to counteract that.
4. Understand your mistakes but also realize that you are not a failure.
   Don’t beat yourself up. If you made mistakes, then yes, learn from them
   but dwelling on what might have been won’t help. It takes two to make a
   relationship, it also takes two to end one. You weren’t the only one
   who made mistakes. It may not seem useful to you now, but a lot of
   times the things you learned from this experience will make your next
   relationship stronger, as long as you make the necessary changes.
5. Start Dating. You won’t feel like it at first, but don’t
   stay away from other people for an extended period of time. Going out
   with other people can help the healing process and boast your ego.
6. Don’t fall prey to others. There will be people trying
   to sell you this or that, guaranteed to win back your partner. Don’t
   let people take advantage of you while you are vulnerable. If you do
   buy something, understand that while there is a chance it could help,
   there is also a chance that it won’t.
7. Take up a hobby. Learn something new. There is probably something you’ve always wanted to try but never had the time. You have the time, do it.
8. Don’t rush into another relationship. While starting to
   date can help you feel better, it’s not a good idea to rush right into
   another relationship. Take time to heal before making any commitments
   or someone will probably end up getting hurt.
9. Avoid dwelling on it. I know it’s impossible not to
   think about it, but, if you find yourself doing so for an extended
   period of time, find a way to take your mind off of it. Call a friend;
   go to the gym, whatever comes to mind. If nothing seems to work, try
   this: Make a list of reasons why you are better off now. This could
   include I have time to do the things I want to do. I can date anyone I
   want to. I can find a partner who will appreciate me the way I am and
   stop wasting time on a doomed relationship. Think about the things they
   did that drove you crazy, because there are some. Don’t look back with
   rose colored glasses and only remember the good things. Don’t have the
   idea in your head that if only we were back together I would be happy.
   Wrong. Wouldn’t they have a lot to answer for if you did get back
   together? Leaving you was probably the biggest mistake they will ever
   make. Let them dwell on it, you move on!
10. Build your ego. I’ve touched on this already but it is
    very important. Find ways to feel better about yourself. This could be
    anything from getting a haircut to buying some new clothes. You could
    take a class on self improvement. If nothing else, you should do this:
    Make a list of things that make you a great person. Don’t sit there and
    tell me you can’t think of anything. I don’t buy it. Try again. Are you
    kind? Patient? Intelligent? Cook like a pro? Can fix anything? There
    are things that make you great. WRITE them down and whenever you feel
    low, read your list and add to it. You are you and you are great so
    don’t let anyone ever make you feel that you aren’t.

1. The nice men are ugly.
2. The handsome men are not nice.
3. The handsome and nice men are gay.
4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.
5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have no money.
6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are only after their money.
7. The handsome men without money are after our money.
8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don’t think we are beautiful enough.
9. The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.
10. The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!
11. The men who never make the first move, automatically lose
interest in us when we take the initiative.

NOW, WHO THE HELL UNDERSTANDS MEN?

"Men are like a fine wine. They all start out like grapes, and it’s our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you’d like to have dinner with."

Men Are Just Happier People.
What do you expect from such simple  creatures?
Your last name stays put.
The garage is all yours.
Wedding plans take  care of themselves.
Chocolate is just another snack.
You can be President.
You can never be pregnant.
You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park.
You can wear NO shirt to a water park.
Car mechanics tell you the truth.
The world is your urinal.
You never have to drive to another gas  station restroom because this one is just too icky.
You don’t have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt.
Same work, more pay.
Wrinkles add character.
People never stare at your chest when you’re talking to them.
The occasional well-rendered belch /fart is practically expected.
New  shoes don’t cut, blister, or mangle your feet.
One mood all the time.
Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.
You know stuff about tanks.
A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase.
You can open all your own jars.
You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness.
If someone forgets to invite you, he or she can still be your friend.
Three pairs of shoes  are more than enough.
You almost never have strap problems in public.
You are unable to see wrinkles in your clothes.
Everything on your face stays its original color.
The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades.
You only have to shave your  face and neck.
You can play with toys all your life.
Your belly usually hides your big hips.
One wallet and one
pair of shoes one color for all seasons.
You Can wear shorts no matter how your legs look.
You can "do" your nails with a pocket knife.
You have freedom of choice concerning growing a moustache.
You can do shopping for 25 relatives in 25 minutes.
No wonder men are happier.
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